March 7, 2010

Don't like goodbyes

For external reasons, I have to shut down this blog. But before I go, let me tell you a couple of things.

First, why did I name this blog "A Catalan in Paris". I'm this huge Broadway musical’s fan. There were a couple of posts I wanted to write in this blog, one about the best soccer team in the world, my team: Barça. The second one was about my biggest passion: musicals.

One of these musicals is “An American in Paris” (1951), a lovely movie from Vincente Minelli (Liza Minelli’s father), with Leslie Caron and my dear charming Gene Kelly. So when I thought about the name for my first blog, this one was perfect: I’m Catalan, I’m in Paris, and it sounds very similar to the movie’s name. Oh, and if you want to know more about this movie, click here.

In any case, if we know each other, if you have my e-mail or if we are connected through Facebook, you will probably hear about me if I decide to start a new blog. But if you don’t hear about me, just in case, send me a private message (you can through this blog), so I let you know about me and my future adventures. Now that I’ve been in Paris for 4 months, I guess my probation period is over, and maybe it’s a sign that it’s the right moment to close this blog.

On the other hand, if you’ve been secretly following me and you don’t hear about me again, I’ll let you know why I decided to leave Barcelona. Music is fundamental in my life, and now that you know I’m this musicals buff, you will understand that I explain it with a song. I had to defy gravity I guess… The explanation is here.

Finally, I’ll share something I wrote when I turned 30 years old. It will be my “goodbye note”, a piece of me, of my soul. Whoever you are, whatever you do, I wish for you that life give you what you deserve, and that you deserve what life gives you.

Thoughts on turning 30

I am 30 years old now.

In the last 30 years I’ve seen my country becoming a member of the European Union, the fall of the Berlin wall, my beautiful city organizing the Olympic Games. I remember what happened on September the 11th 2001 in the city of New York (USA). I’ve seen the world waving goodbye to lady Diana of Wales, Mario Benedetti or Pope John Paul II. I’ve experienced what it is like to share a new currency, the euro, in a continent. I’ve been also fortunate enough to enjoy a law that prohibits smoking in most places (finally!). And very recently I’ve seen my football team becoming the best of the world (for me it already was, but now it is official).

On a more personal side, I’ve learned a lot as well. And it made me think about the things you should know before you turn 30. You may agree, disagree or none of the above. It is just a disorganized list, some thoughts that I’ve gathered and put together for my special day. I hope you enjoy the reading!

30 things you should know before you turn 30 years old:

1) Stay away from people that can’t smile.

2) If you are truly convinced of what you are doing is the right thing, don’t let anybody tell you the opposite. Your destiny is yours, nobody else’s.

3) You have to be passionate about the things you like. If you love a book, read it more than once. If you love a singer, buy its music. If you love a movie, learn its dialogue by heart. There’s no other way to live life fully.

4) Learn to have time just for you, alone, and to have some secrets. Some things you can’t tell anyone.

5) You can’t leave your problems behind. You will move to Siberia and your problems will relocate with you.

6) There are some things that you just have to face in life. So learn to stand up and fight as soon as possible.

7) Most of times the correct decision will be the hardest one. Get used to it, because that’s the way you have to lead your life, taking the correct decisions.

8) Be honest with yourself. When you’re wrong, there’s only one way out, and that’s saying: “I’m wrong”.

9) Don’t lose your time with the wrong people. Your significant one should make you extremely happy, your friends should be happy with your good news and sad with the bad ones, and your family should support and care for you no matter what. If that’s not case… change those people, and consider yourself very lucky, because your life will be much better after the change.

10) Don’t let your pride or egocentrism interfere in your decisions.

11) Learn from other’s mistakes. That will save you a lot of time and suffering.

12) You will probably have to survive through really difficult or particularly ugly experiences. Since that is inevitable, learn something about it. If not, you are suffering a lot… in vain.

13) People often mistake lust or sex with love.

14) Involve yourself in projects that you can develop on your own. If you get extra help, always remember to be thankful.

15) Learn to say “I’m sorry”… and mean it. And also never forget the magic words: “please” and “thank you”.

16) Don’t try to fix somebody else’s problems. Instead, help yourself in fixing yours.

17) Sometimes you have to lead, other times you have to follow. Choose the appropriate moment for each.

18) Always be ready to learn something new from anybody, friend or foe.

19) Laugh out loud now and then. If someone doesn’t like it, then stay away from that horrible person.

20) Doctor House is right: everybody lies. At least, try not to lie to yourself too often.

21) You are who you are, never forget it.

22) We all need somebody at some point. Be ready to be ignored by those that you consider best friends, and also be thankful for the help or time that some others will dedicate to you, unexpectedly. And remember the lesson: if somebody needs you, and you truly appreciate that person, leave everything and go to him/her.

23) Being shy, coward or lazy are unacceptable excuses.

24) Do not expect anybody else to fix your problems. Grow up before you turn 20 and be in charge of your own life.

25) Time puts everything in place. It may need 20, 25 or 40 years, but it will put everything in place.

26) It’s better to have a religion than none.

27) Only worry about the things that should truly worry you, and never before they happen (unless you want to waste your life being miserable about what may happen in 2023…).

28) Be ready for any surprise, good or bad. Life gives and takes, takes and gives.

29) Observe people. It’s easy to know things just by observing. Be sensitive (and sensible) with the
information you may gather.

30) Never ever surrender, but really: never.


And remember these words from Martin Luther King Jr.:

"Cowardice asks the question, 'Is it safe?'. Expediency asks the question, 'Is it politic?' Vanity asks the question, 'Is it popular?'. But, conscience asks the question, 'Is it right?'. And there comes a time when one must take a position that is neither safe, nor politic, nor popular but one must take it because one's conscience tells one that it is right."

Thanks for sharing with me this part of my journey. See ya!

February 14, 2010

Not another metro trip: Director's Cut


I did it again! Living in Paris means you get visits all the time from all over Europe. This week I got to spend a wonderful and frozen Saturday hanging around The Lady (that is, the Eiffel Tower), because my dear Swedish friend Anders needed to take 500 pictures of the tower. He said he would wrap his whole bedroom with all the pictures he took. In any case, I couldn't miss the chance to record once again the metro trip that I love so much, but this time with the image rotated! And that's the video you have above.



Since I passed by once again later that day, I decided to record the trip again with the night lights, to show you how beautiful The Lady looks in the evening. However, as a very bad film director that I am, I didn't realize that, since the train was illuminated in the inside, the image would be very bad. Anyway, I upload the second video too, you will appreciate the French woman sitting in front of me and paying attention to what I was doing. She didn't understand a bit, but... I owed this to you. Enjoy!

PS: I promise you, yesterday Paris was Siberia...

January 24, 2010

French life with a Catalan fuet


When you live in a foreign country, inevitably you adapt yourself to the new place. However, some things stay with you forever, because, like a beautiful song says, “you are who you are”. Me, as a Catalan person, I cannot live without fuet (Catalan sausage) or pa amb tomàquet (bread with tomato, olive oil, salt). Well, finding the food you need is not easy when you are abroad!

I’ve been in Paris for a few months now. I’m spending most of my free time trying to settle myself in the city. This is a very interesting and demanding activity, because there’s a lot of work to do. Right now I still don’t know well my neighborhood, I have to carry my Paris map (aka as “my best friend”) all the time, I have to ask a lot of questions (where do I have to go, how should I do this or that). But what currently is taking me most time, now that the hard part of the international moving is over, is finding food & stuff.

It took me one month and a half to find a mop for example. Here in France people use other ways to clean the ground of their homes, but I don’t like their methods. So I was out on my quest number… thirty seven probably. And I found the mop! A couple of weeks later I found something else: scotch tape. I was so so so happy when I found it that I bought three of them; just in case, since I had such a hard time to find them. But food, mes amis…

Glorious food! I finally found a very big supermarket close to my place: Monoprix (they are all over the city - and the country). They have a lot of food there, but the Spanish part is not very developed. I managed to find fuet, and actually it says it comes from Catalunya, so I bought it and tasted it: yes, definitely it’s a good fuet, and probably it does come from Catalunya. What’s funny is that I recognized it when I smelled it while walking around the shop. I said to myself: “Wait a moment, I cannot see it, but I can smell it: there’s fuet somewhere in here!”. And there it was: saucisse de Catalogne. Fantastic!

Not all my stories are successful ones though. For example, I cannot find the equivalent to Avecrem (cubes for soup). They have something called bouillon that belongs to the same family, but not close enough. So I embarked myself today in a new adventure: preparing an imaginative soup. I had the bouillon, I had the chicken and I also bought a pot au feu: onion, celery, carrots, leeks, laurel, thyme… The result is not completely satisfying because -frankly- my culinary arts are not very developed, but it can be eaten. It’s been the first time I’ve been able to cook something that really tasted home!

This means that right now I’m in a special crusade, which is finding the ingredients (and the will…) in order to cook my kind of thing. Don’t mistake me: French cuisine is extraordinary! But I don’t know (yet) how to cook the quiche lorraines, gratins dauphinois, hachis parmentiers, etc., that are so delicious. Right now, I’m sticking to what I know, with the elements that I’m given.

Well, actually I’ve prepared myself something French, my favorite dessert: La Belle Helene. It’s a boiled pear, with vanilla ice cream and chocolate sauce (some people add cream too, or change the flavor of the ice cream). It’s the best dessert ever, and it’s French, and it’s delicious, and I always order for it in restaurants if they have it. Mmmm, it’s marvelous!

Now, before I go I’ll give you some insight in French actualité, as I promised to you I would. The debate I talked to you about concerning French identity is still alive. I still haven’t been able to engage myself in long conversations about this matter with French people, but the topic is quite complicated. It’s impossible to discuss the matter without involving racism, colonialism, social conflicts, discrimination… France cannot ignore the reality concerning immigration, and it is certainly a debate that I will not promote from my blog. Maybe one day I will talk more about it, but I will not engage myself because this is a huge subject very difficult to treat.

In any case, and now that I’m back to the real world with my new Internet connection, with my new TV and with cable at home, I’ll have to mention the terrible earthquake that has destroyed Port-au-Prince, Haiti’s capital. France is deeply connected to this Caribbean country, and for the last ten days this is the headline in every newspaper and news bulletin. Of course, French have engaged themselves, like many others, in collecting money to help these poor people. They have even written an anthem: “Agissons pour Haiti” (let’s act for Haiti). I, personally, haven’t had the guts to watch a lot of news concerning this horrible disaster. Maybe I’m getting old, but it’s not easy to stay in front of the TV without crying when you see what we have all seen these days.

By the way, it still snows now and then, and +1ºC has become a very enjoyable temperature for me… I will explain to you another day everything we do in this city to stay warm. Now I understand even better why foreigners think that Spain has Caribbean weather… Because I think the same!

Good night and good luck!

January 21, 2010

Not another metro trip


I cannot find the way to rotate the image, but here it is! The best metro trip you can take in Paris, between stations Bir-Hakeim and Passy. I hope you like it, it was a Saturday morning and it was freezing...

I would like to find more time to update my blog, but my work life is invading my personal life right now. I will catch up sooner or later! I have so many stories about Paris... More to come!

PS: The Spanish conversation you can hear in the video has nothing to do with me. I was too busy dealing with my cell phone...

December 16, 2009

I love Paris in the winter when it drizzles... Don't I?

That’s what happens when you don’t update your blog for one month… You have way too many things to talk about!

I have been preparing this very long post about Barcelona vs Paris, but I will leave it for another day. Now I will dedicate a few words to you about Parisian weather.

Thanks to the Internet, I am following Catalan news, and it seems you are suffering a very very very bad cold wave in Catalunya. I hear expressions like “Siberian weather”, “emergency plans activated”, etc. etc. Even today somebody told me that it’s not comparable, that humid coldness (like in Barcelona) is much worse than dry coldness (like in Paris).

My dear loyal readers: no. In Paris we have right now between 5 and 10 ºC LESS than in Barcelona. For the last 72h we have NOT been over 0ºC. For the next four days we have a snow forecast, in the city of Paris! I say this because usually in winter it snows in Île-de-France (Paris area), but snow doesn’t settle inside the city. Well, it will starting tomorrow! And that’s exceptional for Paris. So no, it’s worse here.

In any case, if you look at the picture… It will be beautiful! And I will stay home this weekend… Mediterranean-Uruguayan people can’t take this weather for 3 months… And for your information, I’m counting my days until April!


November 15, 2009

The French toilet is back in my life

The cool thing about having a blog is that you can write about whatever you want. Now, the subject of today’s post will be the toilet. But not any toilet, oh no… the French toilet!

This is one of those things where there’s only black or white, you can’t be in the middle. I’ve visited many countries in three different continents so far, and France is the only place where I’ve seen the toilet separated from the bathroom/shower room. I’ve had this discussion with French people many many times, and it’s amazing how we cannot convince each other.

Here’s the situation. At home, in France, usually the toilet (like the one in the picture) is separated from the rest of the bathroom (bathtub, shower, mirror, towels, etc.). This means there’s a very small room with just the toilet and toilet paper, and the rest of the “items” are in a separate room. Why? The explanation that I always get is the following: it’s better like this because if someone is getting a shower and you need to go to the toilet, you can.

My dear reader: just because you are reading this I will give you the credit of being an intelligent person. Therefore, as an intelligent person that you are, please think for five seconds how many times in your life you have been in this situation (that you wanted to go to the toilet but it was busy because somebody was taking shower). Not that many times, right? But let’s assume it happens now and then. What do you do? That’s right: you wait. Is it a tragedy? Let’s be honest: no. Even if there is no other bathroom in the house. You wait.

Now we have clarified that the supposed fantastic benefit of having two separate rooms is not that fantastic. We can continue with my second point here. Me, and I’m getting private here, I always, but I really mean always, wash my hands after going to the toilet. It’s one of those things you do in life: you brush your teeth, you get dressed before leaving home, you take a shower now and then… and you wash your hands after going to the toilet. Period. Can you do it in these small toilet rooms that they have? No. Why? Oh, because there’s no place to wash your hands. You have to go to the bathroom, unless, of course, somebody is taking a shower… And then you have to wait. You wait (again). Sooooooo my dear reader: you need the bathroom anyway! You have to wait anyway!

Conclusion: the supposed benefit of having two separate “bathrooms” is not that good, because the positive effect is not really there, and in addition to that, you have a great negative effect: you still need the bathroom.

I’m clearly against these separate rooms, but I can tell you that I have never managed to convince a single French person of this. It doesn’t matter if you give them the logical reasons that I’ve just written, or if you tell them that it’s the only country in the continent that does it, they just think it’s the best system. And of course, the rest we think our system is better.

There are two solutions for this toilet issue. First, if you have a small apartment (not that difficult in Paris…). Since there’s not a lot of room, toilet and shower are together: problem solved. And second, if you are very rich. Then you can call an architect and tell them to change the house and put it altogether: toilet, toilet paper, shower, mirror… Everything.

And thus that’s the conclusion of my Ode Against The Separate Toilet.

Aside from this, Paris offered me yesterday my first real Parisian storm. I was in a 22nd floor and the view was fantastic. Thank God I didn’t have to go out! And secondly, after three tries (yes, three: one, two, three), I finally have my cell phone. I promise you that it’s easier to win the Tour de France than to sign a cell phone contract… My new cell phone is in Catalan, because my phone gives the option of choosing my language! (There’s also Basque and Galician, I love it!).

To end up with, and being the soccer fan that I am, I’m very happy that Uruguay won yesterday their match against Costa Rica in order to qualify for the 2010 World Championship (for those of you not aware of this, I have Uruguayan roots). We still have the second game pending in Montevideo next Wednesday; let’s hope everything goes well… Spain is already qualified (of course, with most of the team coming from the best club in the world: Barça), and France won over Ireland yesterday too. They have to win next Wednesday as well here in Paris. I think they will qualify too, and I will very happy for them. In any case: ¡arriba Uruguay!

November 8, 2009

Paris sera toujours Paris

Here I am, writing from Paris. Amazing, eh? My first hours in Paris have been very special. Back in 2002 I arrived to this city to study for one year. So my first day I came here with all my baggage, I put them on my bed and I thought: “What should I do now?”. It occurred to me then to take the metro and go to Étoile, better known as the place where you will find the Arc de Triomphe.

My first day in Paris in 2009 I decided that, since it worked the first time, I should do the same. So, once again, I went to Étoile, and I stared at the Arc de Triomphe. It was a funny feeling, more than 6 years later! I took a picture of the thing (that is, the arc) and I decided to go down the Champs Elysées, and capture a bit of the Parisian atmosphere. That makes a 3 km walk, maybe a little bit more. In 2 hours this is all I saw (didn’t properly visit anything):

La Défense

Champs Elysées

Palais Royal

Assemblée Nationale

Pont Alexandre III (my favorite bridge in Paris!)

Les Invalides

Musée d’Orsay

Musée du Louvre

Notre Dame de Paris

Pont des Arts

And yes, of course, I saw the Eiffel tower!

Great promenade, but my body was in pain. I forgot the wind in Paris, and how difficult it is to keep your hair in place with a decent look! I’ll have to find a solution for that, maybe I’ll start wearing a hat, like many others do in this city, because it’s quite frustrating to leave home with nice and clean hair and after 5 minutes on the street you look like Cameron Diaz in the movie “Being John Malkovich”.

I have to tell you also about my 3 new best friends: my umbrella, my winter coat and my street guide. Paris is cold compared to Barcelona, and the risk of rain is high almost every day, so I’ll have to get used to carry my umbrella again (not nice, it makes the purse heavier). But the street guide… Oh yes, we are becoming best friends! It’s ok to have a tourist’s guide if you don’t plan to stay long in Paris, but when you live here you really do need a serious map of the city. Now I have mine, and I’m sure it’s going to be very very useful. This little book is my best friend now!

My first impressions on the city haven’t changed. Paris is still Paris, which is good. I do need to improve my French accent urgently, as I hate to hear my too strong Spanish accent when I speak, and if I can hear it, just imagine the French… And I don’t want to be one of those people that never truly get integrated in a new country. So I have a lot of work to do.

It’s not only the accent; I have also to memorize once again the metros, directions, neighborhoods, streets, etc… My new little book (my best friend!) will help me in the following weeks with that. So far I have no TV, therefore there’s no excuse. I know how to get to every tourist place in the city, but this is not what I need on my day to day.

Finally, I’ll mention two points that we are going to call “Actualité française”. First of all, former Président de la République Jacques Chirac has recently published his autobiography. That’s ok, everybody does that, however some corruption cases involving him have been brought to the public light at the same time. Is it done on purpose? Who knows, but I’m interested, so I’ll keep you posted.

And number two for the “Actualité française”: l’identité française ( = French identity). It seems there’s a huge debate on the streets concerning what’s the French identity, and from what I hear the debate is being nourished by the Président de la République himself, monsieur Nicolas Sarkozy. I have to investigate this one as well, and it’ll take time until I have access to different opinions from French people. Mmm, I guess I’ll have to have my own opinion on this subject one of these days…

And that will be all! À la prochaine!

PS1: It’s been only a few days in here, and I’m starting to have trouble to write in English. I need English speakers around me! Will find someone…

PS2: For those that read my previous post, when I saw the Eiffel tower for the first time, of course… I smiled :).